tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35619589.post8417676689239663318..comments2023-10-20T09:04:45.829+01:00Comments on My New Notebook: Nature v nurtureCathyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14103529618681254875noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35619589.post-27160740529663275642007-05-02T09:57:00.000+01:002007-05-02T09:57:00.000+01:00On balance nature seems more important than nurtur...On balance nature seems more important than nurture then? Though I do think nurture can also have a significant effect (just thinking of cases I have know etc...)<BR/><BR/>Beta mum...in my family it has always been that the child most likely to be shouted at is the one who most resembles the parent shouting. In this house that would be me!Cathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14103529618681254875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35619589.post-10906318297422325882007-05-02T07:21:00.000+01:002007-05-02T07:21:00.000+01:00It's weird, isn't it? A former boss from a long ti...It's weird, isn't it? A former boss from a long time ago had a sister who'd given birth to her son after having been deserted by her partner. The boy didn't actually meet his father until he was about 5 or 6 years old, I think - but they had the same mannerisms even before they'd met!<BR/><BR/>Weird ...<BR/><BR/>A<BR/>xxxAnne Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03982495677389302410noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35619589.post-26881013698664230802007-05-01T23:37:00.000+01:002007-05-01T23:37:00.000+01:00I think it's all nature. My daughter has been the ...I think it's all nature. My daughter has been the same since birth, despite all my childcare techniques. <BR/><BR/>Sahd.Stay at home dadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07943310521217164291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35619589.post-49994211032941469752007-05-01T20:39:00.000+01:002007-05-01T20:39:00.000+01:00Oliver James wrote an interesting book on this sub...Oliver James wrote an interesting book on this subject, the title of which was based on the Philip Larkin poem. At the time of writing, he did not have children and maintained that nurture was paramount. I wonder if he will now have changed his stance? Nothing challenges our preconceptions more than our children. <BR/><BR/>I think nature plays a bigger part than we now acknowledge, although many traits are a complex interaction between the two. Of my three sons, the oldest most resembles my father's father, the middle one, my late younger brother and the youngest his own father, in character at least, despite them having a distanced relationship.Catherinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01588437065757203375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35619589.post-1683985816778150262007-05-01T20:34:00.000+01:002007-05-01T20:34:00.000+01:00I find it's best to blame any characteristic I don...I find it's best to blame any characteristic I don't like at the time on their father, leaving the rest to claim as my own.<BR/>Actually I find the things that annoy me most about my son are the things I recognise in myself.<BR/>Doesn't stop me shouting though - well you've got to sometimes haven't you? <BR/>As my grandmother always said "it's enough to make anyone shout."Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com